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When the Old You Doesn’t Quite Let Go

There’s an odd place people pass through when they start changing their lives. You know the old version of you is fading away. In many ways, it’s already gone. The habits are different. The priorities are shifting. The things that once filled your time or occupied your mind don’t hold the same appeal (or hurt)Continue reading “When the Old You Doesn’t Quite Let Go”

The Two-Hour Social Window Is An Introvert’s Secret Clock

Most introverts (like me) know something about themselves that they rarely say out loud. If they attend a social gathering, they’ll probably enjoy it. But after about two hours – three, max, they’ll likely be ready to go home. Not because the evening was bad or because the people weren’t pleasant. But because somewhere inside,Continue reading “The Two-Hour Social Window Is An Introvert’s Secret Clock”

The Slow Acceptance That Not Every Hour Has to Be Productive

There’s a particular kind of guilt that showed with me around three in the afternoon. It slides into my brain and asks, quietly, “What have you accomplished lately?” And I can feel the low flame of my brain flickering instead of roaring. For years, I would have fought this hour. I would have forced something.Continue reading “The Slow Acceptance That Not Every Hour Has to Be Productive”