One of the oddest social questions people ask is why I rarely drink. Not whether I want a drink. Not what I’d like instead. But why. As if there must be some dramatic backstory. “No, really. Why don’t you drink?” The assumption seems to be that there has to be a reason. Maybe I’m aContinue reading “Why I Rarely Drink Is None of Your Business”
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The Signs You’ve Outgrown Your Current Life
There are moments before change happens when life starts feeling strangely unfamiliar, and I’ve been experiencing it lately – a lot. It’s not a dramatic moment like a plot twist in a movie. It’s more like a slow internal shift that makes old routines feel heavier, old conversations feel emptier, and old environments feel harderContinue reading “The Signs You’ve Outgrown Your Current Life”
“Anything to See and Do Around Here?” – Asked From the Place They Already Drove To
I saw another beauty in a local Facebook group recently. A couple posted from Chutes Provincial Park asking: “Anything to see and do in the area?” Now, under normal circumstances, that’s a fair question. If you’re planning a trip somewhere six months from now, by all means ask locals for hidden gems, good diners, scenicContinue reading ““Anything to See and Do Around Here?” – Asked From the Place They Already Drove To”
I Don’t Miss Movie Theaters Nearly as Much as I Thought I Would
I was thinking the other day that I haven’t been inside a movie theater in years. Not months. Years. And the surprising thing is that I don’t miss it. Now, before anyone in the cinema business – which I often write about on the technology side faints, let me clarify. I still love movies andContinue reading “I Don’t Miss Movie Theaters Nearly as Much as I Thought I Would”
The Unexpected Kindness of Small Towns
One of the things you don’t expect when you move to a smaller town is how often someone simply offers to help. Not in a dramatic or “look how generous I am” kind of way. Just normal, everyday kindness that happens quietly and without much fuss. I’ve lost track of how many times I’ve beenContinue reading “The Unexpected Kindness of Small Towns”
The Long Goodbye at the Door
Social gatherings have a moment when a guest decides it’s time to leave and it usually starts with, “Well, I should get going.” In theory, that sentence means you’re about to leave. In reality, it often means the evening has entered a completely new phase: the long goodbye at the door. You stand up, thankContinue reading “The Long Goodbye at the Door”
The Weight of a Negative Mind
Have you ever had a bad day or a rough week? I have. Who hasn’t? However, there’s a difference between having a bad day or week and living inside a bad mindset. Life will always throw things at you. Bills show up at the worst time. Plans fall through. Expectations aren’t met. People disappoint you.Continue reading “The Weight of a Negative Mind”
The World Didn’t End (Even Though My Mind Thought It Might)
This last week, my laptop’s built-in microphone suddenly disappeared. One day it worked perfectly. The next, Windows reported “No input devices found,” and Microsoft Teams told me, “No microphone could be found.” After an hour or two of troubleshooting, I discovered I wasn’t alone. Other owners of the same laptop were reporting the identical problemContinue reading “The World Didn’t End (Even Though My Mind Thought It Might)”
From Chaos to Control – How Concerts Grew Up
If you saw concerts in the 1970s or early 1980s, you remember it: general-admission seats, camping out overnight, the rush when the doors opened. You didn’t walk to your spot – you ran. It was part of the experience and part of the risk. Today, that world is mostly gone. Modern concerts – especially atContinue reading “From Chaos to Control – How Concerts Grew Up”
Don’t Tell Me How to Have Fun
The World Cup game was still on; Canada was losing 1-0 to Morocco (they eventually lost 3-0), and the restaurant had reached that familiar stage of sports-watching anxiety where logic starts quietly slipping out the side door. Nails are being bitten, people are playing armchair coach and player, and anxiety is building as Canada triesContinue reading “Don’t Tell Me How to Have Fun”
